Know true love. Added On: 09-27-01, 01:11 AM (PST) what you need: -a pink or red candle -incense, your choice light the candle and place it in front of you, either hold it or place it in a candle holder. light the incense while saying: I light this incense to see if my love is true. Show me, what is the truth? sit with your eyes closed until you either see or hear something, a postitive image or sound is saying your love is true, a negitive sound or image is saying your love is false. only if you believe will this work.